grandma’s funeral speech transcript (updated)
From the morning of January 18th.
This morning my Grandma died.
I feel guilty to say it but I am relieved. I think others in the family are too.
She’s been in a declining state of Alzheimer's for about 10 years. Perhaps more. Pre-grief is a hell of thing.
I stayed with her and my Grandpa at the hospital ’til around midnight. My aunt came in from California for the night and I left when she arrived. I think that was good. That meant my Grandma got to say goodbye to all her kids and grandkids. Most in person. Some over the phone.
Either way, like I said, I’m relieved she’s moved on. She lived a good life. She meant a lot to a lot of people. She meant a lot to me. I accredit to her my values of being welcoming, being kind, being warm, being neighbourly and helpful to people who seem to be in distress. Sacrifice for the greater good. Giving grace. Appreciating nature. Birds, flowers, music.
To me she was a ranging river of unconditional love. I could always count on Grandma to be in my corner. On my team. To cheer me on. When the world was too much she offered shelter and peace. Safety.
She was a well of all that stuff. I’m sad she is gone. But I think she lives on through me. Through her kids and grand kids and now great grand kids. Through her family and friends. Through Bob.
Through all of you here. Through the many peoples lives she touched; however indirect.
At least it feels that way to me.
Thank you Grandma. I miss you Grandma. I love you Grandma.